We live in a self-centered, me-first world. (This is no new revelation to most people.) Unfortunately, this attitude comes so naturally that it often goes unchecked in our lives. But for maturing Christians, this attitude becomes more and more unnatural. We see that selfishness is a negative attitude and move beyond it in our thoughts and behavior. The opposite of selfishness is being others-centered. An others-centered person sees the needs outside of his immediate world